[SYCL] Optimize mul_mat for Q4_0 on Intel GPU (#12035)

* opt performance by reorder for Intel GPU

* detect hw type and save opt feature, and print opt feature

* correct name

* support optimize graph once when compute graph, record the opt status in tensor->extra, make CI passed

* add env variable GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT for debug

* use syclex::architecture replace the custom hw define, update the guide for GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT

* add performance data

* mv getrows functions to separeted files

* fix global variables

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Co-authored-by: arthw <14088817+arthw@users.noreply.github.com>

ggml/src/ggml-sycl/sycl_hw.hpp

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+#ifndef SYCL_HW_HPP
+#define SYCL_HW_HPP
+
+#include <algorithm>
+#include <stdio.h>
+#include <vector>
+#include <map>
+
+#include <sycl/sycl.hpp>
+
+namespace syclex = sycl::ext::oneapi::experimental;
+
+struct sycl_hw_info {
+  syclex::architecture arch;
+  int32_t device_id;
+};
+
+bool is_in_vector(std::vector<int> &vec, int item);
+
+sycl_hw_info get_device_hw_info(sycl::device *device_ptr);
+
+
+#endif // SYCL_HW_HPP